Why did Mary Clean the Feet of Jesus?

Here are 3 important spiritual lessons we can learn from the story of Mary anointing Jesus’ feet:

1. God is worthy of our worship. All of us worship someone or something in our lives, according to how we decide to spend our time and energy. Whatever we devote our attention to the most from day to day is essentially what we’re worshiping. This story of Mary’s act of worship shows us that there is no one and nothing more deserving of our worship than God. We need to get rid of any idols in our lives – whoever or whatever we’re giving more attention to than we’re giving God – and make God our top priority in our schedules and decisions. The way we can motivate ourselves to do so is by pursuing God’s wonder. In my book Wake Up to Wonder, I explain research that shows a strong connection between wonder and worship. Encountering wonder inspires us to worship because the more we notice the wonder of God’s work in our lives, the more we’ll want to worship him. The connection works the other way around, as well: the more we choose to worship God, the more we will recognize his wonder and feel awe.

2. God doesn’t hold anything back from us. God loves us completely and unconditionally. This story of Jesus’ anointing foreshadows how Jesus gave his all on the Cross for us. He made the ultimate sacrifice so we can enjoy eternal relationships with God. As John 3:16 says: “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.” There are no limits to what God is willing to do for us, because of his great love for us. God not only has love for us, but God actually is love at his core, as 1 John 4:16 declares: “And so we know and rely on the love God has for us. God is love. Whoever lives in love lives in God, and God in them.” Psalm 36:7 points out: “How priceless is your unfailing love, O God!…”. God is the source of all love, and love that comes from him never fails. God’s unlimited, reliable love is something to celebrate!

3. We shouldn’t hold back anything back from God. In our relationships with God, we shouldn’t hold back our love from God. God is worthy of all our love and he doesn’t hold back his love from us. So, like Mary in this story, we should give our wholehearted devotion to God. Jesus reveals in Matthew 22:37 that the greatest commandment of all is to, “‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’” Love is more than an emotion; it’s an action. We often have opportunities to show our love for God through our work, and Colossians 3:23-24 encourages us: “Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters, since you know that you will receive an inheritance from the Lord as a reward. It is the Lord Christ you are serving.” Just like Mary did, let’s give our very best to God.

How Can We Apply These Lessons in Our Own Spiritual Lives?

We can apply the wisdom from these lessons by doing our best to pour out our lives as on offering to God, just like Mary poured out valuable perfume to show God her love.

Our attention shows what we value most. Mary’s attention to Jesus reveals that she highly values him. Are we giving our attention first and foremost to our relationships with God? How often do we think of God and communicate with him? Are we reading the Bible – God’s love letter to us – regularly? Have we built prayer and meditation habits we enjoy? How often are we thanking God for his love and the blessings he’s giving us? Are we seeking God’s wonder and celebrating it? Are we approaching worship as more than just a weekly service, but as a constant lifestyle? What are we doing to show God from day to day that we adore him?

Our time is like Mary’s perfume – a highly valuable resource that we should use well. In order to so, we should make our relationships with God our top priority. Do our schedules show that we’re centering our lives on our relationships with God?

Every day, we can ask our Counselor the Holy Spirit (John 14:26) to help us worship God wholeheartedly, without holding anything back. We can base our decisions on the Holy Spirit’s guidance, and then enjoy how doing so welcomes God’s love into our lives.


The Bible story in which Mary anoints Jesus’ feet with perfume powerfully shows love in action. Mary recognized God’s true value and responded to a loving God with loving worship. By looking at Mary’s example of devotion to Jesus, we can find the inspiration we need to fully receive and give love in our own relationships with God.

Whitney Hopler is the author of the Wake Up to Wonder book and the Wake Up to Wonder blog, which help people thrive through experiencing awe. She leads the communications work at George Mason University’s Center for the Advancement of Well-Being. Whitney has served as a writer, editor, and website developer for leading media organizations, including Crosswalk.com, The Salvation Army USA’s national publications, and Dotdash.com (where she produced a popular channel on angels and miracles). She has also written the young adult novel Dream Factory. Connect with Whitney on Twitter.

2 thoughts on “Why did Mary Clean the Feet of Jesus?

  1. Paula Price

    It was the custom of those times to wash the feet of visitors as they entered your home being that people travelled by foot to their destination and the roads of that land were quite dusty and dirty. Without giving the scripture reference, please forgive me, but will say “the Bible” says that Mary wanted to show the master kindness and her love for him by being a servant of him by washing his feet. She was also grateful and thankful for his kindness to her of forgiving her of her sins and accepting her and loving her inspite of them! Jesus tells his disciples as he begin to wash Peter’s and their feet, for which they were shocked, and Peter even refused to let Jesus do it for him, but he tells them that he came not to be served but to serve.. Mary wash Jesus’s feet with oil and dried them with her hair! Beautiful story of worship of the Saviour! There are some churches that include the washing of feet during their Resurrection services (Easter)!


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